Saturday, January 25, 2014

Another point about pedagogy that is obscured by institutionalization: children get smarter every year. Unless a child is living under some sort of frank abuse, that child is going to get smarter every year NO MATTER WHAT. That's just how humans roll, developmentally. And it has absolutely nothing to do with any specific kind of schooling.
Ya know the tragedy of forcing kids to read too early, how some obsessed competitive enthusiastic parents make this mistake? Forcing math on kids too early is equally stupid. Imagine trying to understand 1 plus 1 when you are 1. Now imagine trying to understand it when you are 15. Obviously, you can labor over the wrong information at the wrong time, or you can wait for the right time when the information is developmentally appropriate. We can work hard or we can work smart, its a choice. Its pretty dang tricky to judge developmental readiness for anyone else--enthusiasm or willingness would be the best bet, I think. 

Notice that the only time its socially acceptable to force extended challenge on someone else is in school. No where in the adult world, does this happen. With the exception of prison and illness, adults are always free to weigh their own reasons and the payoff before embarking on challenge. The argument that challenging young children, for 13 years in an institution, is good for them intellectually (or emotionally) has zero science to back it up. Life is insanely challenging, already. Adding to that willfully is akin to bullying. Coddling is equally absurd, don't get me wrong. But don't try to tell me institutionalized kids are made smarter through the process. That's bullshit unproven.

Anyhow, a bunch of teenagers ended up over here last night, hanging out. Eventually they drifted over to the puzzle we've got going on. They knocked out a bunch of the difficult pieces. Thanks y'all!

3 comments:

  1. I've always loved reading your blog, even though I didn't unschool my son. However, if you have the strength(and it's painfully sad) look at this mom's blog about educating her little boy. The child is going to need so much therapy later. I'd be surprised if he doesn't revolt soon, and he's only 3 or 4. I worried about him for hours after happening upon it. http://littlemanlogic.wordpress.com/

    Dot

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  2. Wow. Gosh. Hum.... Its like looking into an alternate universe. What they are doing is the absolute opposite to what we've been doing. I would think either the mother or the kid would burn out. But who knows? Maybe it works for them? I sincerely hope so.

    I suppose the feeling I have, peering into that blog, is very similar to the feeling other folks might get peering in here? "Like, WOW man, look what those freaks are doing to their kid!" This, in varied forms, has been said to me more than once.

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  3. Good God. What we do to our kids in the name of their well-being. Heaven help the children and forgive us our errors. We are doing our best. May the children forgive us.

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