Mornings and evenings are usually the time when Boy and I connect. And we connect most often silently, next to each other, quietly reading or typing. Mostly reading. We call it "reading nexttos". That kid and I are so different in many ways.
He's into complicated intricate gaming, mostly, a thing I can't play well enough to share with him. We tried. We played "Magic The Gathering" last week. Every turn I had to ask what the card meant, what was the power, what the damage? Until finally I asked if I was annoying him. "This is a bit tedious" he admitted. Ah, honesty is always refreshing.
If I'm not reading I'm crafting. He was done with craftiness years ago. I clean or sew and read. He plays guitar and reads. That leaves us reading together. But the silence and the companionship are lovely. He is such a kind hearted, wickedly funny, calm, easy-going kid. I love read nexttos with Dear Boy.
Zombie Fluxx with Dear Girl and Dear Nephew. The kids spent a lot of time with Dear Nephew this summer. Life is good.
Yes, tedious.
ReplyDeleteMy kids caught on to pokemon with ease.
I am still baffled.
love you, and your son too, for trying, Val
'reading nexttos' - love it!
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